Replies to '12/28 Wifestyles'

I dont care if the job is low paying - atleast I wont end up on the wealfare line and sitting on my butt.  You seem, to me, that you are "power to the women" and screw everyone else.  You would rather have no one marry cause it will eventually fail, dont have kids cause things happen and you can never be prepared enough for them.  You are very determined to have and want everyone women on this board to say you are correct in every aspect and I will start staching money away so when my husband cheats or leaves me I will be fine.  I will tell my husband that I am going to a friends house every other nite durning the week so I can get an education so when he does leave ( like you have repeatily stated that 2/3 will) I will be okay and any children that I do have will be fine.  You are the one who is premoting fraud in a family.  You are saying that dont have children cause you will be divorced and if you do you better stay working to be able to provide at the drop of a hat for your kids if hubby leaves.  No way am I in the Micky Mouse mode of thinking.  If that was the case - I would have a supercalifragicisticsuperalisdosous (sp) day ever day with sparkling house, children that are completely healthy and are absoutly angels and a single hair that is never out of place.  Why dont you - instead of encouraging others not to live in a marriage or if they do to except it to fail - you get off your horse and encourage them to seek counciling, talk to a pastor or other minister of your religion.  Instead of going over and over that having a women stay home with her children is DEGRADING to the "women" of today support them.  You seem that you need to have the understanding of what a Stay at home mom or wife does daily.  And if you are so worried about mother or wives that come out of marriages to a crappy paying - you hire them.  I dont have the money so go - hey the laundry is backed up  were is merry maids to clean my house.  That is my choice - we are given the "Free Choice" from God.  My husband job allows us to send our kids to a private school to get a Christian education, cause of my husband accident we have both our vehicals paid in full, 40 acres that is paid out right.  Like I stated before - we all got your point that being married sucks for the women who stay home to raise children because when the man leaves we will be screwing our children over in the long run and hurting them.  Oh wait - I have to go hid some money my husband just brought home incase he realizes i am not the women he ever wanted to marry.  You never know - Eve Longeria may walk into my house and snatch him from me.   

Thank you again for making me realize that God does have a funny side and makes people so closed minded that even in His own words that other people will twist and destroy what he wrote.