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October 14, 2005, 4:42 pm PDT
10/14 ‘Kick ‘em to the Curb!’
Quote From: miztopcatI don't know how to advise you, I have never had to live through it. I know it has to be harder for some than it is for others. If you have an abusive husband who is upheld in the community as a good citizen, or if he is in charge of more assets, or..... many other factors can come into play here.....what I'm tryin to say is this- Courts won't always do the right thing, there are crooked cops and crooked judges, and we ALL have heard those stories on the news right? God Bless you that is my story all over again in you, the only thing that I have come up with, is when I finally left my ex he gained custody of my children.. We have been in and out of court 5 years now, but I have learned a couple of things...One, he is just doing all of this to hurt me, since I am not his punching bag anymore, take the kids and kill her emotionally, which at first worked... but I got to thinking someday, he will have to answer to his actions with our children (whom hate to be with him, they are 8,10) And to me that will be my laughing day, I did find that Journaling helps a bunch, I write daily in mine, and even have letters to my sons in them so someday, they will know the truth. God bless you...Shelly
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