Quote From: birdlegsI totally agree about getting out, but what if you cannot work to support yourself? I filed for disability almost 3 years ago and have stayed with the creep while watching him cheat on me with women on the internet. He's saying now he's dumping me on my daughter with whom we have been living with, but now she wants her house back! My court date was 1-1/2 mos ago and now I wait again. What if they say no? And with my condition I have very high medical bills. Everything is not cut and dry and so easy. I already tried the suicide thing, but I hate now to see him win! Working is not an option... I tried! I just can't do it to myself, or anyone else again. The pain is too bad and the meds make it so I cannot think. But disability is so screwed up... my lawyer says people who really need it are denied, and those who don't do. And I would only get $700/mo! But I would try it just to get away from him! I'll take any advice you have, but I feel stuck, at least until the judge makes a decision. But he is leaving for a job next week on the east coast and says he is leaving me here! Help me if you can! Beg to go for the financial support in the meantime, or let him leave? And then what? I know where I should end up, but what is the direction I should take? I am so confused and worried!
There are plenty of centers that provide services and promote activities to assist people with disabilities in leading productive, structured, self-directed lives.
Let your excuses be few.