Quote From: mrslees06 so i am 23 200+ pounds and desperate, i have been with my husband for 5 years but been married for two this september, i have a back disorder where my disc are desinagrating and sooner or later if i dont loose my weight it will just get worse, i have already lost 35 pounds by doing nothing i think its from the vicodin i have been taking for my back pain so i can take care of my two year old son. they sent me to physical therapy and that didnt work they tell me to work out and that just causes the pain to be worse so i give up i dont know what else to do. the only time i can work out is in the morning but i am one of those people who needs someone to work out with dont ask me why?.. my husband says hes going to workout with me and go on a diet with me but one he says that he cant wake up that early and two.... i dont know i think i use him as a excuse not to do it, its just in my neighborhood you cant walk around the block by yourself cause you will get mugged, or a dog will come and attack you its crazy and with only one income i cant afford to go to a gym..so please help what do i do?
jamie
Holy cow Jamie. I've never seen so many excuses for not doing the right thng before. You sound depressed and I'm guessing this is what is bringing on all the excuses. Why didn't physical therapy work? Did it not help you or did you just give up because it hurt? If it was recommended that you work out you need to continue. I used to have tendenitis for almost 2yrs. It was debilitating. I couldn't work, sleep, play,even pick up a glass with my right hand. I did all method of treatments, cortizone shots, acupunture, etc. Finally I said to myself, what if I start doing physical therapy on it? No doctor suggested It I just thought, "Would it work"? Either it's going to get worse, get better or stay the same. I had to find out. So off to a gym I went. It hurt, but I did it anyway. I started noticing relief in the evenings, my elbow did't throb. After about 6mo's of lifting light weights, 4 days a week it was gone. I've been painfree for many years now. If you can't afford a gym membership, by a cheap workout tape $3-$10 and small hand weights from Walmart and begin at home. Ask your doctor what exercises would be best for your situation. Sit in a dining chair in front of your TV and get started. Start counting calories and take in no more than 1500 a day. Stay the course and things will change. If you cheat (everyone does), don't beat yourself up about it, move on and get back on track the next meal. Remember Jamie, doing nothing will get you the same results you've aways gotten. Best of luck to you. Please get moving for the sake of your own survival AND happiness. Don't depend on your husband. Depend only on yourself. You CAN do it.