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May 28, 2008, 4:43 pm PDT
answerin you back
Quote From: mustbecrazyMen and women are "wired" so differently, and values vary greatly. Your boyfriend might not even realize that you would like some time with him outside your home. He really needs a wake-up call about the responsibilities of being a father...he really DOES need to be doing things with his kids....and he needs to be there for you.
Here I go again...couples counseling might be very helpful for you...it can open the lines of communication and help you both see the other's point of view.
Not knowing your whole situation (hard to get down in a few paragraphs), I can't really say a whole lot about it, but your boyfriend really needs to be more involved in his family, and less involved in himself...sounds rather self-centered to me...but, again, I can't really make that assumption based on a few paragraphs...
Becky Well for starters.. they arent his kids they are my children from a previous marriage.. but he has been raising them for the past three years. And just this last year has decided to not have anything to do with them or me outside of the home. He is very easily tempted with peer pressure when it comes to his friends and the fact that they all know that the kids arent his.. and that his friends think because they arent his he should not have anything to do with them. And because of that , it has built a wall in our relationship.I still respect and stand by him through any decision that he makes but i cant accept the fact that he is treating my kids the way that he is treating them. He and my daughter were very close until his attitude changed, and now she feels as if she has been cheated out of a father again.
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