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May 30, 2008, 1:40 pm PDT
I totally get your point
Quote From: jwils523You know what I find really lame, not to mention psychologically damaging to girls, is what people tell them about sex? When they tell the girl that the guy doesn't care about them, they're just a piece of meat, and the guy will run away as soon as you're pregnant. Well, wonder why they boys think and do that, society has conditioned them to believe they can get away with it because it's expected of them, right out of the mouths of adults. Guys are taught that it is acceptable to have double standards and not take responsibility for their actions because it doesn't matter, it'll all be put on the girl anyway.
I wish Dr. Phil would have gotten to the root of the problem, guys molest girls in middle school and pressure them to "put out or get out" thus traumatizing them, thus making them submissive to boys by the time they're in high school. Lets get real here, we let boys get away with being sexist. This causes the girls to have low self-esteem, as they're taught that their looks and sexuality is the only thing that makes them worthy of the opposite sex.
Please Dr. Phil have a show on sexually active BOYS next time, I guarentee it starts with them! I have been that teenage girl and now I am a single mother and the beginning is on both sides, and it starts at birth. The parent or parents must give love and respect to their children praise them every time the are caught being good and discipline them with respect. Keeping firm yet loving boudaries teaches children to require that of all relationships in their lives. A little girl whose parents have respect for themselves and her will respect herself and wont be giving herself away to a boy just because he says he wont like her anymore. A boy who has a good relationship with his parents will not mistreat his girlfriends. I know you have heard that you need to check out how a guy treats his mother before you hook up to know how he will treat you. I will treat my girls and my boy with lots of love and respect and remind them how special they are so that they will look for men that treat them like their family does, and I will encourage them to save themselves for marriage because I have never known anyone who regretted having sex too late! Love, Respect, Discipline the recipe for happy kids.
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