Replies to '06/02 Banned From the Wedding'

 I know that Jane is upset at what's going on, but one thing I learned in life.  "It's not what you say, but how you say it."  Your tone of voice matters a lot in what you say.  That's why when Jane says one thing Michelle hears something else.  You don't mean to sound mean, but you are.  Communication is good, but attitude behind the communication means more.

Jane is also upset that Michelle stole her only son away from her. Come on!!!  Let him go and let him live his own life.  If that is the case then even if Jay were to marry someone else Jane will be upset because she "stole" him away.  Please.....WAKE UP!!!  The truth is Jane doesn't want Jay to marry anyone.  She wants to keep him to herself.  She doesn't know how to let go being the fact that she only has one child.

Jay's aunt Gail should just butt out of the conversation.  Say what you need to say and SHUT UP!!!  This isn't even her fight.  Butting in only makes the situation worse like she's any better.  At least Michelle's mom Shannon at least knows what's going on but she doesn't stick her nose all up in her daughter's business.  She knows it's something they have to work out, but she's there to support her daughter.

As for the whole argument, once Jane deals with hers issues and Michelle checks herself everything will start to cool down.  Until then, they will continue to bite off each other's head.  Jane has to learn how to let go of her son and grow up.  Michelle needs to learn how to respect elders.