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June 11, 2008, 5:39 pm PDT

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Quote From: yesyoucan

Maybe you just need to vent so vent away.

Do a check list to see if anything in lifestyle could be tweaked for a more user friendly mind/body connection. Getting enough rest, fluids, balanced meals. Keeping a healthy routine and habits.

Even thought diet can need us to change dial from everything that is or has gone wrong to everything that has or could go right. Not only do I have to watch bingeing on Dove ice cream mini bit size ice cream. I have to watch bingeing running reels of less than perfect times in my life to validate my pain. Sure allow ourself to grieve yet try to get a handle so your grief doesn't control you. Sort of like Serenity Prayer:

God grant me the serenity to accept
The things I cannot change
Courage to change
the things I can change
and Wisdom
To know the difference

Panic, anxiety, and depression have been linked to shallow breathing so a physical is always a good idea with complete blood work including thyroid and hormone level test. Something physical can cause low oxygen levels as can not enough doctor approved exercise... like walks even just to corner and back.

You are wise to recognize that more than anything different at work your PMS was magnifying. Some people just take Paxil during PMS. I don't know if still done or a good idea so you'd have to research. Its for those whose hormones take them for an emotional roller coaster ride via PMS.

So sit down with pen and pad and see if anything you can do to tweak your life. Get a good physical with complete blood work and vent and chat with us while you decide what is in your best interest. Up to you. Life isn't cured it is managed.

So grab ahold of steering wheel of your life like you wouldn't just sit in a car moving down road and see what happens or where ends up.

Definitely, not punching out co-workers IS in your best interest.

Do realize that stewing over past or things you cannot change in present reflects on expressions on your face and compounds stress of anything stressful in present happening or that occurs.

So, just like hitting ten with someone might have to do with 8 parts of that resulting from a thought diet from stewing over collective perceived infractions from repertoire of when life is or was less than perfect. We all have our own personal repertoires of painful life stories. Even Dr. Phil and Robin have sad things that have happened to them.

Share whatever you feel comfortable sharing. Most of us here have vented... Including me. Most of us are just winging it on a wing and a prayer.

DR PHIL QUOTE: You're the one who talks to you all day every day. Characterize messages you send yourself by a rational and productive optimism.

You can Google: Depression Self Help Tips

Also, note above where you see "Click here for" in red "General and Mental Health Resources." Nice to meet you.

SEA


 I did try to call my dr. today but of course the office closed at 4pm and i called around 4:15. Anyways! I really don't know where to start. I can go back to when I was a child, or I can go back just a few years. I do have to say atleast I know it does go way back to my childhood what has triggered it. I do keep thinking what friend can I call to vent to, but I just don't want to be that birden. I know two of my friends where already like open up will you. I can't cause I do know what my one friend has going on in her life, and I feel like she has enough going on. My other friend, I really don't belive she will know what to do, what words to say to help me. I have been there for them, all my friends that have came running to me for advice. I even sit back and think of what I have told them, Heck why can't I take the advice I give them to help me. I know I take after my father with temper. I use to punch walls and yell alot when someone would tick me off. I can say I never hit no one. My dad is a drinker, not as bad as he was when I was younger thank god. Just glad I didn't follow that. Yes he was a mean drunk. I did look up depression online and there was a little quiz to take to roughly see what kind of depreesed person I am. I am not sure how acurate the quiz is, but heck I even started balling reading the questions. UGH!!!!!!! It says I am moderately severe depressive. Doesn't sound that bad. LOL...Yes I have to laugh at that just because mainly that is what I think, it dont sound bad. I have in the past sat down and wrote things for like two days. Then after that I couldn't stick with it cause it couldn't keep my attention, pertty much borded me i guess. Heck maybe buying a punching bag will help, wont hurt the fist as much when punching a wall. HAHAHA 
 


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