Replies to 'The Meaning of "Family"'

Quote From: jaimie1974

My advice to you is to continue to invite him to events in the childrens lives. You are right- he is their father and they do need and deserve a healthy relationship with him. He is having a difficult time right now because, in my opinion, of that third party that you mentioned. That other person is not happy with knowing that he is around you, and he doesnt want to make that person unhappy. Remember that honeymoon period in the relationship when youd do anything to make your partner happy? Well, he is experiencing that right now with her. Over time, hopefully, he will relax and realize that you are only being courteous. You are being the hero that Dr. Phil talks about, and I congratulate you on that. I know it isnt always easy, but it is the right thing to do. Continue to be yourself, to be the person that you know you are & that you are happy with. Dont worry about what he says or thinks of you; it isnt relevant and it wont change your actions. Best wishes!