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June 19, 2008, 8:49 pm PDT
you are not alone
Quote From: arizonatakenI have been raising my grandson for the past year. He is an adorable grandchild, the love of my life. My daughter had him when she was sixteen. I was shocked that she could just move out of our house (last month) and leave so quickly. It was as if one day she decided she no longer wanted to deal with the baby. I think my rules also caused my daughter to move out. She hated the curfew times and rarely did any chores around the house. My grandson turned one year old two weeks ago. My heart sank when she showed up to the party without a gift. I just couldn't and still don't understand how she could leave everything and just "go." The other day I found the ultrasound photos. They brought tears to my eyes. I am feeling very lonely right now. Is there anyone out there who feels like me or has gone through this? My husband is very supportive of the adoption. I never realized how long adoptions take..........even within the family. Wow where to start. I am sitting here crying because I totally understand the only difference is it is my sons child and eventhough my son is around everyday the mother would rather party with her mother, smoke weed and pop pills, than be a part of her sons life. He just turned 2 a few weeks ago and his mom didn't even bother to show up. What is up with all these mothers do they not know how damaging their choices are to these babies. Good luck and I wish you the best.
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