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June 17, 2008, 6:02 pm PDT
General Advice
Quote From: ammap51I need some help here. My daughter-in-law coaches her 5 year old daughter to say the "F" word the "N" word and so on. SHe calls her 10 year old son a F____ing A-- H--- and if I say any thing I am not allowed to see my grandchildren.
On Farher's day she told her 5 year old daughter(my granddaughter) to call he dad (my son) and my daughter-in-laws husband (who was out helping his brother install a pool at 7 am when all his family members were sleeping) when her dad answered his cell phone she the 5 year old said "Happy F------- Father's Day!) and hung up on her dad. This was what her mother told her to say.
Why would a mother tell her little daughter to say that? Why would a mother curse her 10 year old son, who is considered by his teachers all his teachers as the best kid in the class. He just made the dandy dozen at his school, he aspires to be a lawyer, he is such a good kid that I cannot understand this. Also why would my son accept this behavior from his wife? i am so repulsed at what your daughter in-law does to her children. I recomend that she and the family go to a consiler, even though from what you have said i doubt she would. i think that all you can do is make sure that the children know that they are not what she says they are. you dont need to say it in front of her all you need to do is praise them for doing the right thing and egnore them when she gets them to say things like that. maybee even stand up and leave the room as though your descusted just to show the kids what most people think of behaviour like that.
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