Quote From: thnmk26
ok. so im a 17 yr. old female, proud to say im a virgin!
i do occasionally "pleasure myself" and i enjoy it greatLY!!!
I'VE NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND , NEVER BEEN KISSED
LITTLE ON THE HEAVY SIDE.
when i go to the docter and they ask if im sexually active i say no because ive never engaged in intercourse or oral. whatever... is what i do wrong? is masurbating technically sex?
Well yes and no.
Masturbation is part of your sexual experience and sex life. But it's not sex in the traditional way.
Maybe this is a good way to look at it. Masturbation helps you keep your virginity. You can let the pressure off every now and again but you keep away from boys for now. Maybe it helps to know that over 90% of men and at least over 60% of women masturbate. There have to be devoted Christians, Muslims, Jews or whatever your religion is among them.