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June 20, 2008, 9:26 pm PDT

Cheated On

Quote From: keepitmoving

I am a  31yr old seperated woman who is a mother of a toddler. I first found out my husband was cheating while I was pregnant with my son. I worked hard to get past it (I'm not sure I ever really did) and later found out shortly after we purchased our first home that he was still cheating. After 2 1/2 yrs of lies and betrayal I left him. It is a year later and we still try to make it work. I love him as he is the father of my son and someone I have known most of my life but I just dont know if I will ever trust him fully again. I want my son to have his family back but I dont ever want to feel the way I felt after all the infidelity. My husband still has not come completely clean and I think this has a lot to do with my lack of trust and forgiveness. Am I making the situation worse by trying to make this work? Should I just walk away? Am i hurting my son with all of this?

If I were you I would go for counseling with your husband. If he is not willing to actively work on the relationship, then I would let it go.  Two of you have to be in this relationship! You will only experience more hardship but worst you will not be able to care for your child if you are emotionally upset.

 

One thing that concerns me is his inability or unwillingness to come clean.  Once a liar always a liar. You are still young, don't waste too much time 2.1/2 years of lies is a very long time!  Good luck.

 


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