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September 10, 2008, 1:43 pm PDT

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Quote From: wvpooch

Dear Doctor Phill

        I have lost my mother today. She was my best friend my world revoled around her. My heart fell so numb, My eyes feel like I can't see out of them. My life is falling apart. I work in retail for 3 yrs I have other jobs threw the years.  How can I live on.  They say grieving heals right now I am not sure. I just need someone that would listen to me.  My husband does'nt not sport me to much in anything now days. Always nagative about anything I talk to him about.. I know your going to say Its just not my Mother death but My marrage too. Will Your right has been. for a long tme.. I love him as a friend no a husband.. I am so confuse now. My son lives with us. He his 27 years old.. He helps out alot has been working sence he was old enought to work.. He pay for alot of stuff around here.. you can say he not a free loader. But he is controling of me and my husband. Its a long store about him. Just need to chat or put down How I feel.. There more but it would be a book.. Thanks for listing to me.. Yours Truely Loney upset .

Hello all I am a member of   SMACK   ( Step Monsters Against Coddled Kids)

 

 I have 4 children , 2 his, 2 Mine, in the  begining everyone got along (all 6 ) incredibly well. Now  2 of the girls who are  both  18 .My step daughter has decided that  having her "daddy " to herself is  so much more profitable. We use to ge good friends incredibly close lbut now we barley talk. She wrote some really vicious words via email and it hurt badly . But I dont hold it against her , It is hard for them to realize and deal with the things that are going on in there lives. not saying that it is right just  they are still learning but the key is for both parents  to stick together , stand together as a parenting front  is really hard for the bio parent . The child will think  there mom/dad is choosing sides. but they need to understand that standing together is for the  joint happiness of the entire family. Now some one tell my husband!!!!!!! quickly!!!!!

 


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