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Quote From: jlmay2

I have a 14 yr old who has major problems, and before anyone says anything, I know its because of her father and me. We were married for 8 yrs and it was pretty much all abusive, not all but most of it was. I also have a 16 yr old who is from the same father. But she just holds it all in till her and I blow up and then we make up. I know that none of this is good. I came from a very abusive family who thought degrading me was fun.  Iv had a lot of counsling for what I went through, I am doing alot better. I just dont know how to help my girls, my youngest calls me every name in the book.  I  am  B, W, she tells me to "F" off on a daily basis, I dont even ask her to help to house work anymore its just easier to do it myself.  She wont talk to a counsler, she steals smokes from me and anyone who walks in my trailer.  I dont know what to do, I want to send her to boot camp or a milliarty camp, that would straighnt her out for sure.  if anyones got any advice please let me know.  shes going to be afreshmen in high school this fall. I know she will get her butt kicked and Iv told her I wont  pitty her when it happens.    my email is jodislittlefirends@hotmail.com