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My Dear Young friend,
I know how rumors can torment. It's hard to deal with when someone attacts your charactor.
Especially when that first seed is planted to try and make you feel bad about yourself.
Then it just festers. You know who you are and what you stand for. Don't let others make you feel bad about yourself. It's hard to say exactly why people do this to each other.
I have a condition called Morgellons and the 32 Doctors that I have been to ...well, most are saying that I am delusional and most of my friends that I have or had tell me just to stop it. Some I have had since 4th grade. I am 48. So, I happen to know the kind of pain you are suffering through.
Dear, you just have to make a decision to not allow anyone to make you doubt yourself or feel bad about yourself.
Yes, it is painful and hurtful and this is a hard lesson to learn at a young age but trust me you will be glad that you learned it at your young age and can use it for the rest of your life to keep you balanced. It will come in handy when you make your life choices about people you choose to be in your life circle. This may also help you to know the person you want o become because we change so much along the way but this is a good time to decide what kind of a person you want to be..
You might say they have done you a favor. I know it doesn't seem like that now but I tell you, you can and will get through this and become stronger and stronger.
I am glad that it is not your physical health that is being compromised although I know that emotional can and probably is just as hard.
Buckle up for safety it can be a bumpy ride but you will work it out. Hang with the winners such as yourself!!!!!!! Laur
