Replies to '06/20 "You Ruined My Reputation"'

I agree that some people like to make others look bad. People that start and spread rumours that can hurt others, have a problem with themselves. They feel that they have to put others down, in order to bring themselves up. We all should be careful. What we do and say, affects everyone in some special way. This special way belongs to them - it is their perception. Therefore, it is very important to think before we act, and ask ourselves if we would wish the same things said or done to us. Every action has a reaction, from someone somewhere. We have to make sure that we emit good in order to receive good. We all need to put ourselves in each other's shoes once in awhile, and then everyone could understand everyone a little more. Let's stop bad rumours by ignoring them, and  make good ones instead. This way, everyone would be happy. Thanks. 

I really think that some people have no idea that something they say can hurt someone so bad that in some cases these poor tormented people commit suicide to get away from the abuse.  A friend of mine had a horrid rumour started about her.. that she was of both sex's hermophrodite.. i think its called... but the pain and suffering this poor girl has endured is beyond explanation.  The internet can b an evil source of malicious gossip.. because the abusers do not have to face the people they are so bravely calling names.. and some of them dont even know the people that they are bad mouthing.... so lets all just take a second before we say something nasty or malicous about someone... because im sure your backyard so to speak aint so tidy either.  Im sure someone could twist and manipulate a situation so you sound skanky or a whore (used as examples).... just remember... silence is sometimes the best answer....  

Samantha