Replies to '12/26 "I Am Right!"'

 I applaud you for your morals!  It's very hard to find such people as yourself in today's society.  It's sad that sex has become such a "casual" thing.  They even have a new comedy movie out called "The 40-year old virgin"!!  It's sad that so many people make jokes about something so sacred.

 Now, I agree wholeheartedly with you. Even though I lost my virginity when I was a lot younger, too young really but eh, sometimes we do stupid, stupid things as people. If you are not ready, nor have you met anyone who you feel ready with, then the worst thing in the world you can do is sacrifice something that means so much to you mentally and spiritially, personally, I'd give anything to be a virgin again believe it or not.

When I heard this, I just thought "yuk!"  This guy is a desperado.  I'm glad I met my soul mate and he loved me the way I am (and we got to enjoy things while we were young and hot!!!).  I honor his choice if it's for religious reasons, but I'm glad it's not mine.  It almost makes my skin crawl, though!

While attempting to avoid a huge and detailed discussion, I have to say that if you view our history as biological beings, saving your virginity for your "soulmate" is NOT the way it's "supposed" to be. 

  

Evolutionarily speaking, we have sex to procreate.  Evolutionarily speaking, love has nothing to do with sex. 

  

This is NOT to say I believe love & sex are unrelated.  It's quite wonderful to love the person with whom you are intimate. 

  

However, it is only your personal view that sex before marriage is wrong.  Yes, it is a view that is held by many - but it IS a moral OPINION and nothing more.   

  

To keep the post on topic and refer back to the show, I feel that if the 20-year-old guest is happy with his choice to remain celibate until he meets the woman he marries, the choice should be his.  I have no problem with this.  I only take issue with the statement that this is "the way it's SUPPOSED to be."