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Quote From: celliegean

Yes we would be married with in a month or 2 if he where divorced. I think some of the reason is that he is worred about her heath. ( she is having open heart sugury this month) Sher is 44 I bel;ieve andso it's not  garenteed thing going into it. He is 40 aand is torn between helping his kidsad not making herlook like the B**** that she has become. I  talk to his mm almost eveyday, She hastold me several times that people ther are not in the least suprized that they are sepeated she was cheating on him when they liv 5 years ago. She hasa BF living with her now and they are still needing moremoney then what they bring n. I  am just kinda tierd of being the other woma here. I  kow he loves me with all his heart but  aso hear him tell her that he loves here and if he doesnt she tells the kids that are wit he that he did something mean or said something mean and they stop talking to him for weeks on end. I  think it would be best for them tomove here but that isjust my opinion.  feel like I  am being put seconda lit but he wors close to 90 hours a week at work and get's side jobs that take himaway from us more.. He comes home every nioght t us and I  am not wrried that he is seeing anyoe else It is just kinda depressing it will be 2 years augst we have been dating and still not any close to being his wife. :( I  know he wants to wait til have sex even till weare married! ( we do have a aby together but we are trying to do the right thing here) no one believes me when I say we sleep in the sme bed and I havent been touched in 9 months! they think I am full f poo!