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This woman was talking about her own life....I think she'd know if she was having sex or not.

There's a huge difference in not being a "friend and lover" and not having sex. People can have sex and be neither friends nor lovers. Even married people. Ron wasn't wanting for sex from Amber. He was wanting for something besides sex. Attention outside the bedroom, maybe. It's often hard to add "mother" to "friend and lover" without sacrificing something. Besides, had you read the post to which you're responding here, you would have known it was written by Amber. And, I think she'd know whether she and Ron were having sex or not.