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October 16, 2005, 7:07 pm PDT

moms and money conflicts

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I think that she should kick him to the curb yesterday! He expects her to pay bills that she can't afford to pay. Then when her money is all gone he withholds money from her? Just the fact that she has to beg him for money shows me he has no respect for her or any woman for that matter. If he really loved her it wouldn't matter if she had a job or not. He would leave it up to her. He is only using her for an extra paycheck to make HIS life better. She doesn't need him. She needs her self-respect back. It would be better if she were alone with her self-respect intact than to be with him miserable and without self-esteen and self-respect. Get rid of that loser ASAP! He doesn't love you. He loves himself! Leave him and let him be with himself! Someday you will realize that you made the right decision in leaving him. You might even meet someone down the road when you are ready. You must have self-respect in order to find the right man who will respect you and love you for who you are. It won't be important to him to rely on your money. He will have enough love for you and have enough self-respect to treat you in a way where you deserve to be treated. Good luck in getting rid of that jerk. 

  

                                                 Carole 

  when two people get together. either married or living together. they should split the bill's and the money down the middle. it's not just one person paying for everything. you want to be together because you love each other, care. think what you want before you get in to something. make sure that's what you.
 
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October 16, 2005, 8:28 pm PDT

Self Respect

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I think that she should kick him to the curb yesterday! He expects her to pay bills that she can't afford to pay. Then when her money is all gone he withholds money from her? Just the fact that she has to beg him for money shows me he has no respect for her or any woman for that matter. If he really loved her it wouldn't matter if she had a job or not. He would leave it up to her. He is only using her for an extra paycheck to make HIS life better. She doesn't need him. She needs her self-respect back. It would be better if she were alone with her self-respect intact than to be with him miserable and without self-esteen and self-respect. Get rid of that loser ASAP! He doesn't love you. He loves himself! Leave him and let him be with himself! Someday you will realize that you made the right decision in leaving him. You might even meet someone down the road when you are ready. You must have self-respect in order to find the right man who will respect you and love you for who you are. It won't be important to him to rely on your money. He will have enough love for you and have enough self-respect to treat you in a way where you deserve to be treated. Good luck in getting rid of that jerk. 

  

                                                 Carole 

This man seems like nothing more than a controller and an abuser.  I have a family member who is going through the same thing in her life...she is afraid to leave her husband as he has threatened her over and over during their years of marriage (which is really no marriage) and she is afraid of him.  She took him back after kicking him to the curb six months later...and is regretting each day.  But she does not have any self respect left and no self esteem.  He has taken it all away.  The best thing for a woman in this situation is definately "kick him to the curb" and never look back.  She will be happier in the long run...its difficult but well worth to get her self esteem back once again.  And leave him in the dust!
 


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