Replies to 'Differing Sex Drives'

Communications is the cornerstone of any relationship. I think both of you need to sit your partners down, at a time when sex is not an option, and discuss what is bothering you, and what you are wanting as far as sex is concerned.

We men aren't mind readers, and we truly would love it if a woman would tell us exactly what is a turn on and what is not. At the same time you need to find out what is going on in their minds, and what they are expecting as well. I think more relationships would have less problems if both partners would set down, at a comfortable time and place and discuss what's going on in their mind, and find out the same from their partner's mind as well.

I can't give either of you a solution to what will work, because no two people are the same, and what turns one person on, will turn off another. What the two of you need to do is try to communicate, and find out what is going on with your partner, and why they are not getting what you are needing out of your relationship.

I hope this at least gives you both some food for thought. Good luck, and please keep us informed on what is going on, as what happens in your relationship, may very well help someone having the same problems.