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  In my case, I hate the other woman for what she put both my boyfriend and me through. She just left him and tossed him aside like a piece of trash for her own selfish reasons, and he was stuck with her responsibilities in addition to his own. Then after she knew she had crushed him, she reeled him back in, and she knew full well he had a girlfriend. He told me she was actually asking him questions about me. Obviously, she didn't care about his relationship. She is the most selfish person I have ever known...hands down! I just wish my boyfriend would have been stronger and could have seen through her. I know he hates what did and what a sucker he was. I'm glad he realized it and that will deter him from ever doing something like that again. It makes me so angry that he allowed someone to walk all over him like that. Obviously, I can't blame her for everything because he's the one who got on a plane and went down to see her, not to mention that he lied straight to my face for months. It makes doubt a lot of things he says just because he hasn't completely won back my trust. The sole reason for that is she is still involved in the house business, so there is that inkling of a chance something could happen. Who knows, she could want to sleep with him to get a better deal on the house. I know that's a stretch, but I can't rule out anything since I was so blind-sided before. It's so depressing! I mean, we have been happy for months, but I just always have my guard up because even though I don't have reason to think something is going on right this second, I can't rule it out. Am I sounding crazy?