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July 17, 2008, 10:26 am PDT
Divorce is now okay?
Quote From: jacquee4I'm tired of the excuse that she's in it for the kids....she's in it for HERSELF. Kids don't need this "Daddy", "Mommy" wants this "Daddy"! I say, leave her with him.
No wonder in this world that truly good, noble men are so hard to find. When you can treat a woman like garbage and she comes running back for more, where's the payoff in being a classy, decent guy?
I'm so fed up with women putting so much energy into these men and then whining and crying they "can't" leave. Oh, yes, she CAN leave. This is not a case where a woman is afraid for her life and the lives of her children.
Sorry, honey, think about the kids for ONCE. Yes, ONCE, because you are just thinking about yourself and that cowardly, loathsome loser you CHOSE for a mate. I have heard the same thing too often: "any father is better than no father." Until I could see how my children were being harmed I could not go through with getting a divorce. Even 5 years ago, I had a doctor telling me how parents should be looking at what is best for the children and stay together. I was told that I "had condemned my children to hell" for divorcing their emotionally abusive father. I left the church we were attending because I was "wrong" to even consider divorce. A methodist minister gave me the best advice. "As a church we don't "condone" divorce, but we know that it is often necessary. " I was told to ask myself, do you really think this is the life God wants you living?
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