Quote From: kwash1977Hello, I am an thirty-one year old woman. And I have had two Etopic pregnancies; one in 2000 and I lost my left fallopain tube , well last year this same time I experience my second Etopic pregnancy . Well this wonderful doctor manage to save partial of my right tube , only leaving me with an hope and a dream of one day becoming an mother . Well appromixately a couple weeks of being out of the hospital , my freind brings her two to three month old baby around me alot. So one day she brings this baby by and leaves him with me , along with him is belongs: milk(vouchers),clothing ,diapers,medicad card ,birth certificate,social sercurity card,THE WORKS except legal rights to the baby. She is a young mother who wasn't ready for the responsibility of raising two children(the oldest 4) on her own . So I didn't have no problem with keeping her baby , and giving him the love that he needed especially after going through my second Etopic pregnancy . I had this baby for at least an year she was in and out of jail and she still insisted that her baby remains with me. Her family had no problem with it to my knowledge. Well it came to a time where this baby had to have surgery, but his moter was in jail , but he had me . I gave this situation with this baby my all. Well last month the young lady found out that she has an warrant so she left the state and came back two weeks later and crushed my heart an took this baby from me (now not forgetting that I am the only mommy that this bay knows(thats what he calls me) . Now this is why I am wanting to adopt an baby . She want let me see this baby . And its an piece of me that feels so lonely especially since what I been through. and I don't ever want to love an baby and have to give it back to its mother. I want to adopt b/c I have so much love to offer an baby.
In my opinion, it's people like this who treat children as property and not as the fine people that they are. I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you. It would have been nice if she terminated her parental rights in jail. I mean, my God, if I knew I was going to be away from my child for that long, I'd think about it, depending on the age of the child. And then she won't even let you SEE the child after all you've done for her? Ingrate! I think she's just overly insecure, too, because she knows that until she establishes a relationship with her own child, that child would without a doubt prefer to be with you. I hate that for you. I hope you find a child of your own soon, too. You sound like you'd make a good foster mom in the meantime, though. Why not look into that? Have a good week.
Tracy
