Quote From: sweetj42I know how this lady feels this happens with my husband when we are around family memebers or friends he my husband acts so pleasant & polite.And when we are behind close doors he says I don't act right in front of friends or family when we are with them and tells me I stink and now says when my son turns 18teen.so making me choose who be with son or husband.I love my husband alot but we have issues, my love is more for him then it is for me.But I speak my mine to my husband but doesnt get any where because my husband feels he is the ruler of the house because pays for most of the stuff but I work fulltime too but only bring home 1580.00 a month and he brings home 4400.00 a month pays for most of the stuff.But this lady doesnt want to be alone or leave with her two kids because she probably thinks she can't make it but she can she just needs to have good friends to help her or find good room mates to split cost of stuff to live and she could make it.I would help her because I know how it feels to be treated like that if have good friends to be with lonelyness wont be there.Everyone needs good friends you can get men anywhere for your needs once a month...thanks sweetness
I'm a little confused here.....you are giving advice and encouragement to others to get out of the same situation you are in.....yet you stay.
You offer to help others in your situation....yet, you don't seem to be helping yourself.
Honey, the FIRST person you should be loving, helping and encouraging is YOURSELF!!
Remember, we teach people how to treat us, and if your husband is getting away with his shameful behavior, you need to take a look at why.
