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October 17, 2005, 3:03 pm PDT
I Have No Problem with That
Quote From: a_n_otherOK they have problems. She won't do as he wants or says. Rather than just leave he has an affair. She finds out and tells him to come back. He does as he's told because he hasn't the courage to walk and defy her.
That still makes you and he responsible for your misery. She has no responsibility for your feelings. Why should she? You've made it abundantly clear you don't like her and it's hubby who ****ed and left you.
Getting down to brass tacks: how do you feel about alimony, child support, visitation and dealing with the ex-wife until the children leave college unless you and he do a runner? You know I have no problem with his responsibility to his children or to her. He made his bed, he has to lie in it. The problem I have is with a woman who claims to be a good mother and uses her children to hurt her spouse. That is not a good mother...it is a desperate woman who just wants to ruin her husband's life in retaliation for his infidelity. I understand why she's upset but don't spend the rest of your life crucifying him. If you hate him, let him go and go find happiness elsewhere. How do you benefit anyone by being a bitter hateful person?
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