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July 24, 2008, 1:46 pm PDT

I hear you

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Although a little different to the show, I was molested by my stepfather. My mother married him when I was 3 or 4. I'm not sure when it started but I try to forget all these things and to this day I still try to block it out of my mind. My worst fear that scares the hell out of me is that something like that could ever happen to my baby girl, she is only 2 months now but I know she will get  older.
I was also molested by my stepfather.  My mother never defended me and refused to leave him.  She threatened to commit suicide when I was a teenager if I ever told anyone and then again when I was 24 because I tried to confront her.  I have two daughters and have taught them from a very early age about "good touch, bad touch".  I am afraid that if anyone molests my children I might end up going to prison for murder.
 
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July 27, 2008, 11:59 pm PDT

Childhood Sexual Abuse Support

Quote From: angel198715

Although a little different to the show, I was molested by my stepfather. My mother married him when I was 3 or 4. I'm not sure when it started but I try to forget all these things and to this day I still try to block it out of my mind. My worst fear that scares the hell out of me is that something like that could ever happen to my baby girl, she is only 2 months now but I know she will get  older.
Being molested can happen to any child.  Unfortunately in these times, it seems more likely than not.  Just make sure your relationship with your daughter is strong and that she knows that she can come to you with any thing big or small.  That will make it easier for her to come to you if she is molested.  Keep watch over her as best you can and trust in God.  Teach her the difference between good touch and bad touch early on.  But most importantly, love her.  Let her know you love her and will protect her.  If it does happen, believe her when she tells you and hold your temper and love her even more.  Get the police involved and let the courts handle the abuser.

Love and prayers
Dreamweaver
 


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