Quote From: athreegirlsmomIf the biological father truly wants to be involved, let's see more than talk and make it real. Since
he missed the one year period to make contributions, let's start now, one year, to make financial contributions to a savings account for his daughter and submit to alcohol and drug testing. If
he can pass these requirements, I would think the adoptive parents would consider some kind of contact. I can understand why they would not want to involve him in their child's life without a very good assurance that it will have a good outcome. Even though the adoptive parents may not want to accept the money directly from him, that would not stop him from setting up a fund for his daughter that as she becomes an adult and can make decisions, would benefit her. It seems most adopted children have a need to find out about their biological parent as they get older. This would certainly provide a means of showing he did care and could possibly bring them together as adults, if not during the younger years.
Do you have kids?
Did some one check your bank account before you had kids to make sure you had an account for them?
FYI many people have no accounts for their child. Most people don't make a lot of money does this mean they shouldn't have the choice to give their child to a stranger.
Are you for real
