Quote From: systoleI believe Wade lives in a fantasy world and is seeking attention through these confessions.
Although he may look tough and behave tough, I think that he is very ill. He has sexual dysfunction with women, unless he can fantasise beating them up and raping them.
I believe he tried to be unfaithful, but I am sure he is very inadequate in bed, and told his wife these stories because it made him excited sexually. Porn for him is a way to sexual gratification, which he can not accomplish without porn. He is as much addicted to porn as he is addicted to what porn allows him to do, and that is to reach sexual function.
These fantasies, make him seem important and this helps with his sexual problems. I am sorry for all concerned.
I've been in this relationship, and it is very scary. I don't believe the man I was most recently with murdered anyone (and, I believe Wade may not have either...its a piece of keeping his narcissistic source off balance and staying the center of attention), but this man in my life has been abusive with his family, with me and with his pets. This disorder creates an "alter ego" that they protect. The man I'm talking about is a very respected member of his community, a revered person in the religious world and in the professional world.
Their "alter ego" may look wonderful to those outside their intimate circle, but those inside it are brutalized. The "alter ego" is what I fell in love with. Then I entered the inner circle and saw the abuse of pets, me and others that ensued. The good news is that after a twenty-year marriage with this kind of personality, I left after six months with this new person. I saw it.
It turns out I was trained to accept this from an early age. My mother is a narcissist, my father, who deserted us when I was three months old was a narcissist, and then my mother married a narcissist when I was ten. He displayed all the classic symptoms. I am an only child. The narcissistic personality sees me from a mile away!
I am overwhelmed at what is going on in this relationship. I was looking for a follow-up on the website from Dr. Phil since this was aired in November of last year. How do I find out what happened? I pray that Michelle and her children are safe.
