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August 4, 2008, 9:15 am PDT

I love this story!

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Our marriage started off with all the bad luck anyone could imagine.  

We had purchased a trailer home and while the service man was installing and filling the fuel tank outside the house, it fell off the holder on his leg.  Fortunately he wasn't badly injured. 

We also had difficulty getting a final location for the electric pole to be set and still had no electricity when we returned from our honeymoon. 

The Wednesday before our wedding, the Florist shop burned to the ground.  The florist insisted on providing the flowers anyway, and I was losing petals from my bouquet all the way down the aisle. 

The church had been in a remodeling mode for some months before the wedding, but the pastor assured us that everything would be in place so we could have a modest reception in the church basement.  A couple days before the wedding when we went in to decorate, we found that we would have to move a couple of pianos up or down stairs, as well as many, many tables and chairs, etc..  We had to move the reception to the upstairs of the local fire hall.  

The morning of the wedding, my future husband's gear shift broke off his car and he had to spend the whole morning trying to get it repaired. 

The photographer's camera broke at some point and he told us a week later that none of our group pictures turned out. 

When we returned from our two day honeymoon, we had to overnight at his parent's house due to there being no electricity yet at our home.  His mother had put grocery bags between the open box springs and the mattress to protect the mattress.  Needless to say, just rolling over in bed caused a great deal of crackling. 

In spite of this bad start, we have a very wonderful and happy marriage and will be celebrating our 49th anniversary in November.    The best thing you can do about adversity is laugh at it and hug your spouse.

 

Now this is a story of almost everything going wrong and neither the bride or the groom fell apart and had Post Traumatic stress Disorder for the next five years. You ended up being a happily married couple for an amazing 49 years and I'm sure many more. Too many people nowadays put way too much emphasis on the wedding and absolutely no thought on the marriage itself. I also think that there are many, many couples getting married for the sole purpose of having the wedding itself. The woman just wants to wear the beautiful white dress and play Cinderella for a day. And God forbid should anything go wrong! The whole idea about large weddings anymore seems to be about out doing everyone else. The marriages usually wind up in divorce court within 2 years, because they were never meant to be married in the first place. It's all because the woman wanted "her" special day and said YES to the first man that proposed to her. Personally, I find it disgusting! I never had the big wedding, in fact I never even had a true wedding night. But it didn't matter to me, we have been happily married for 21 years this Sept. . Finding the right man was what was most important to me, not the right florist or the right caterer!
 


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