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August 4, 2008, 9:41 am PDT
Are you referring to the first couple?
Quote From: intellowI find it very amazing how people get married with the wrong concept of what marriage is and not what they want out of their marriage. why is it that when some married couples are going through a rough time the only fix they think of is starting over by renewing their vows, do they not know that talk is cheap people follow like sheep? a marriage counsel is the way to go, or family counselling.
I've seen this show before but I only remember the first couple and the fact they got a whole new wedding so the "bride" could get on with her life after such an overwhelming disaster. Is this the couple that you are referring to? If so, then I too find it ridiculous to renew the vows. Actually, although I do believe in vow renewal, I want to do that myself, but not to try and fix what is wrong in the relationship. I want to renew our vows because we are more in love now than we were 21 years ago, and we thought that we were in love back then. I want to celebrate the ups and downs that we have forged through together and have come out stronger because of it, I just want to celebrate our happiness. That is why a couple should renew their vows. But the first couple? If that bride can't handle what happened at their wedding, which by the way her husband seemed to have a blast and make the best of it, then she is ill prepared for adulthood in the first place. What will she do when a "real" problem comes along? To me, she was just a spoiled, pampered, princess brat who gets everything she wants and when she wants it. She's the type that says "I want it and I want it NOW!". Yuck!!!!
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