Quote From: jettavI have not heard of this book but it sounds like it is supporting men and for women to accept that women are to just put up with crap from men? correct me if I am wrong but no way would I reccomend a book like this to any one. There is absolutley no reason for men (or women) to cheat and no reason that the other should accept this as normal and to learn to deal with it. I personally have a wonderful husabnd who has never cheated and has no desire to cheat nor do i. marriage is about two people becoming as one meaning they are partners with love and respect for one another and if the marriage is healthy and good then there will be no need to cheat. And if one does cheat then the other deserves to get upset and and to demand answers and the one cheating most definetly needs to deal with the issue by either getting help eith his selfishness and to own up to his(her) stupidity, and it takes two to make a marriage and if one decides to cheat then there is probably a reason why therefore he/she needs to give an explanation why and the other too needs to work on themselves as there is probably something lacking from both sides. Men (women) are not programmed to cheat, for God did not create them to cheat, he created them to be partners and helpmates for one another, this author needs to get a clue and not be encourage those who are married to a cheater to accept it as the norm, it is not the norm, it is a choice.
Here is the website for this book if anyone cares. I really think us women need to speak up
and refuse to except this type of behavior. Supposedly this book is Christian oriented I have no clue
where in the bible it says God programmed men to be this way..
http://www.4-womenonly.com/forum.aspx