Replies to '06/06 "I'm Gay, OK?"'

This happened to my best friend about 3 years ago.  They had been friends, close friends for 7 years before they decided to get married.  They were married for around 4 years and had a son (looks JUST like him).  They were a church going family, he played in the worship team.  He put so much importance on making sure he was able to attend church that he told his boss, either you let me off  or I am outta here (they let him off).  He was a dedicated family man.  He was a hard worker.  He kept the same job for years.  His wife stayed home with their son.  He was a very loving and dedicated father.  They were buddies, it was so cute to watch them interact.  He one day lost the job he was working in and got another somewhere else working in retail (as before).  They began scheduling him to work on Sundays, he stopped asking for them to be off, and basically quit church.  Then he started getting into chat rooms and internet pornography.  Next thing I know my best friend is at our home telling me that her husband has told her he is gay.  God bless her, she was willing to work it out anyway, she took those vows seriously.  He wasn't interested in the vows he took.  He kicked her and their son out of their 2 bedroom apartment.  Promised to pay child support, and moved a boyfriend in with him from Canada to whom had just done the same thing to his wife and daughter.  She moved into an apt across the highway from him and he never volunteered to come and see his son.  He changed personalities all together.  He got fired from his job for stealing, and got another job somewhere else and moved he and his partner out of the apartment that he kicked his wife and child out of only to eventually abandon that and move to Canada with his partner.  He has nothing to do with his son.  Hasn't seen him since and doesn't ask to see him.  He was ordered to pay child support and pays a little chunck every great once in while.  The son he loved so much at one time, he has nothing to do with now.  It boggles my mind that who he is attracted to has changed his love for his own flesh and blood child, his innocent child who knows nothing of what it is to be gay, just to love his daddy.  He is now 7, and decided to write his dad a letter.  Bought an international stamp with his own money.  Wow, to have your child write you a letter, how exciting that would be.  I couldn't fathom wanting to live so far from my child that he would have to by an international stamp to write me.  He never wrote him back. That boy watched that mail box in anticipation for weeks on end to only be let down.  He has quit referring to  him as dad and now refers to him as his father.  Bless his little heart.  God has brought a man into their lives that is a wonderful person who adores them both.  Thank God for him, because he can is the father for that boy that his own father refuses to be.  Anyway, I was with her through all of this and know what she went through.  God bless you and I will pray for you and your children.  Just run to God and keep Him as close to you as possible.  I know this is very painful for you.  Thanks for sharing your story on here.