Quote From: lutt0031You know I have no problem with his responsibility to his children or to her. He made his bed, he has to lie in it. The problem I have is with a woman who claims to be a good mother and uses her children to hurt her spouse. That is not a good mother...it is a desperate woman who just wants to ruin her husband's life in retaliation for his infidelity. I understand why she's upset but don't spend the rest of your life crucifying him. If you hate him, let him go and go find happiness elsewhere. How do you benefit anyone by being a bitter hateful person?
This man is still making up excuses. If he REALLY wants to be with you, he wont let his wives or children stop him, he would make it work and figure out a way to make it work. But I dont think you should waste your time on someone who would cheat on his wife AND family in the first place. He'll do the same to you, no matter how much you think he loves you.
