Quote From: jared5Also, it seems too many American women spend their time in a relationship trying to be a man and a woman... which does indeed sacrifice the quality of the wife that they are (most men aren't attracted to men :). Marriage is a partnership with different yet equally important roles... and both the man and the women should serve(respect) each other. People tend to feel the way they are treated which can be a gateway for manipulation. If the man treats the woman as lesser, he shouldn't expect a damn thing in return. (the preceeding message is from a 19-year old American male)
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Does that husband get it yet? (or is he not her husband any longer?) He just keeps going back to the same thing - his wife! He seems to feel it is about her improving - he doesn't see all the improving he needs to do! I bet his dad was like that too! If he doesn't wake up and smell some very pretty roses and give at least a couple dozen to his wife, he may be all by him self and with no one to blame except himself. I believe that if he wants to have the cupboard, drawers, etc more organized, he should just hop right in there and do the organizing and to keep things organized the way he wants he should just continue to do all of the dishes, and everything else to keep him house which should be a home orderly.
We could tell him that real men do dishes; real men cook; real men do laundry; real men vacuum, sweep and mop! If he wants to know about a real man, he can talk to my husband!
