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October 20, 2005, 7:20 pm PDT

Pregnancy Loss

Quote From: fire_fly

There are no answers. I lost my 6th baby in August this year, a son, Ciaran. Prior to Ciaran I've had one other stillbirth, and 4 miscarriages, and am still no closer to finding answers. It's heartbreaking, and every single time i have thought that i couldn't go on, and i couldn't try again, and that i couldn't live if it happened again, but in reality, i pick up the pieces and i keep trying, because one day, it will work, and if it doesn't, then I treasure being able to get pregnant in the first place, and have my babies for however long i have them for.  

  

Some women don't even get that. 

i read your saddening story about the many babies that you have lost. i have an aunt-in-law that has had that same problems. she was able to carry her first 2 children to full term, 1 being a placenta-previa baby and one fortunately is now 38 years old, but she did have 6 other miscarraiges after. apparantely her doctors have confirmed that it is a blood disease that she has. i am not sure the name of it, but her body actually attacks that baby as a foreign and unwanted object, resulting in a miscarraige. i am hopeful for you that you don't have this situation or blood disease, but i thought that maybe you could get a few more anwsers since you say that you don't know why this is happening.  

my heart goes out to you and you are in my prayers that you find a positive answer to the awful situation that you are in. i hope i didn't make things worse, i just wanted to help you find some answers. i am sorry that i don't know the name of it, but at least you might be able to look it up on the computer or ask your doctors about this a disease of this type.  

bless you... 

 


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