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Quote From: clarkt5

I got married last August and I am now in the process of a divorce. Plus I just had surgery (removal of overies) I am 35 and a single mom again. My husband and so called best friend have finally made public appearances. I had a gut feeling back in November but ignored it.. STUPID. ONe thing I have learned is never to do that and yet I did. In late March early April, he told me he was not happy and didn't want to live this way, I agreed (thinking we would go to counseling) and he told me to contact my attorney.Mind you I was in my truck getting ready to leave for work.. All three of us work at the same company, those two are in the office enviroment and I am a shop supervisor. I started hearing alot of stuff but again ignored it.  moved out in June thinking him and I could go to counseling. I tried talking, I went and seen my Pastor wanting him to join me but he doesn't "believe" he stated. My girlfriend denied anything and told me I was ruining her reputation. First I hadn't and haven't said anything to anyone about what I felt. Nobody's business at work. People were seeing it with their own eyes and making their own assumptions. Never once did he come see me or call me while I was in the hospital but she did. I thought before my surgery I needed to make ammends with her??? I thought maybe I had been overreacting..LOL She came to the hospital and sat and third degreed me?? I seen right through her and haven't spoken to her since. So I can relate to the betrayal. Both of them are still in denial and continue to lie. They are friends??? Holding hands in public is not just friends is it? So  righ now I am going through this grieving process and menapause and sometimes it is hard for me to tell which emotions go with what. This is probably the hardest thing I hae ever had to go through and keeping myself together has been even harder. I am drained completely..