Quote From: ritehereYour husband is cheating with your best friend?
This sounds like they hooked up a scant 3 months after you two got married. Are you sure he wasn't seeing her before you got married?
I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, it sounds like your husband wasn't really listening to the particulars during the wedding service- "...in sickness and in health, etc"
Get some counseling, I'm sure that you could get your insurance to cover it since you've had an operation that is changing your biochemistry over night.
If it's possible, don't make any big changes yet until you've had time to get back on your feet. The insensitivity of your husband is astounding- that he would bring up divorce after what you've gone through.
In order to make the best decisions for yourself you need time, so give yourself the gift of putting him and his selfishness on the back burner and get some counseling and take the time to make decisions that will benefit YOU.
Life has a way of serving up your just desserts to you. Your husband is creating some very bad karma for himself.
Yes I know they are..I don't know if gut feelings are a blessing in disguiese or a curse.. At this point anything is possible. It would not surprise me if they were seeing each other before we got married. BUt why would he marry me then? I think the hardest part of all this is that he was going to adopt my son. My son is autistic and loves Kurt very much. That is his dad. Papers were drawn up but never signed. Now I have a son who is confused and missing him. Knowing my son and his coping skills this is going to be a long process and alot of questions and demands for me. I have to stay strong and put together for him, trust me that little boy feeds off my emotions like no tomorow.
I think he forgot alot of the vows not just that part..
I have the court date already and in this state he does not have to be there because I am the one who filed. However, he is and I really dont want him to be. I am dealing with hormone issues which cause me to be overally emotional. I do not want to give him the satisfaction of crying. I also know I dont have control over that yet..I keep praying for the strength to get through that and that by then my hormones will be in working condition. I think this is his one last chance to drive that knife in.
I had my surgery the last week in July so we had been seperated. He sent his g-friend up there instead of coming up himself. I don't know this man and that scares the hell out of me. Makes me afraid of trusting another man.
He is a very nice man and anyone who knows him will say that, what I have seen and gone through with him shows me another side, you know the mean, manipulative person..
I still have a few more weeks before I have to go back to work and hopefully I wont bump into either one of them..
