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October 19, 2008, 6:45 pm PDT
Respect
Quote From: sim2714
Hi, Im 18 years old, and I have been going out with more boyfriend for 2 ½ years, and being an Indian with parents from Indian, they have zero tolerance with dating, they think that all Indian girls should be anti boy until their ready to get married!, and I totally disagree, when I was in gr8, I had not a boyfriend, but u can call it a crush and my parent found out and I got into a lot of trouble, after that last year my mom some how found out about my current boyfriend and she mad a big deal and I got into alto of trouble, after that they thought me and him stopped talking and I moved on in life, but ovb I didnt and im just way to scared to tell them, and just recently my mom had found out about him and the same thing is just going to happened all over again, I cant take this getting got anymore, I hate lying to my parents it just that sometimes they dont leave me a choice, I dont know how to explain to my mom that im 18! And I can have friends that are guys as well and even a boyfriend, and I can not leave my boyfriend because we have been together for more than 2 years and he absolutely respects me, I just need help, how do I explain this to her, that I have feeling, I can also like guys. HELP!
Hi! I had stricked parents too. I obeyed my parents. It turned out to be the best thing I did. They know best. They want you to get married one day. They want to make sure that you dont sell yourself cheap. They want you to be very special girl who is careful not to do the wrong things in life. 18 is still young & you already know him more then 2 years. That was very wrong. No wonder your parents are frustrated with you. Enjoy your youth. You dont have to be commited to a boy. You are still young. Fix your future with educations. Plenty of time for boyfriend. You should respect your parents & dont be a rebel against them. You gave them lots of reasons not to trust you. Wake up to yourself. Dont make mistakes now that will affect the happiness in your future. If he is the right one today, then he will be there when you are all grown up & ready. Remember your parents love you & no one love you more. They want the best for you. If they dont like him. Maybe they have a good reason why they dont like him. I dont know why. Maybe he doesnt respect them & make you go against your parents. Thats a good reason why they dont like him. Be honest. Dont sneak around. Believe me its for your best interest. You should respect yourself. Dont allow anyone to make you do the wrong thing. I just wish from god that he didnt touch you. If he didnt. Well that will be good for you & your parents. Dont ever get used. Remember If he was the one for you, he will be there in the future, with your parents blessings. Good luck
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