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March 28, 2008, 9:31 am PDT
TRUE LOVE
Quote From: itsonlymeI want you to know that I feel love is wonderful, but what about the man you stood in front of God with and promised fidelity? Cheating is wrong, to put it in a nutshell. Lets put it this way, what if you found out your husband was in the same situation with another woman? I venture to say that you would be crushed. You are a woman who has successfully raised beutiful children with the man you have promised an eternity. And in my opinion, marriage is like an insurance policy. You join when you are young and crazy, learn who you are and how to live as a couple through life, and the reward is living your retirement and growing old knowing someone will always be there.
Do you think you are taking this man for granted? He has been good enough for this long, doesn't he deserve the best?
please be the best woman you can be, please don't cheat until you are seperated. God may have put this new man in your life, but not as a gift, maybe as a test. Ask God for his help on this one. I have been married for 22 years and found out 7/07 that my husband was having an affair since 2/07, I completely trusted this man. He says that it was just to get my attention, well there are other ways to get attention. Affairs are selfish and hurfful to more than just the married couple. We have four children, it does affect them and my mood affects everyone around me. It feels like my chest has been ripped out and stomped, sometimes I can just sit and cry for no reason and yes we are both in therapy. We have been together for 27 years, he even tells the therapyst that he constantly told the other person that he loved his wife, My theory is how can you hurt someone you love that much. I have made a vow that no one will ever cause me that much pain again. I told him it would have been easier if the police had come to the door and told me he had been killed in some kind of an accident, at least there would have been closure! So maybe you should think before you leap, someone will get hurt, and if you are looking for revenge then go ahead and do it. If you are looking for self safisfaction masybe you need therapy. I know that I do not trust a man I have known for 27 years and I find that I can not believe anything he says I question everything he says and does because of his cheating. Just remember that your spouse is a human with feeling also.
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