Quote From: lutt0031I often wonder why others feel that the other woman should have any liability to the wife? I am not the one who took vows to her. She is no one to me. This is his issue. If he chooses to stay with her that is just the way it is and I'll get over it, in time. At the end of the day, no woman or man can break up anothers marriage if it is strong. As far as attacking her character, this woman attacked mine on numerous occasions. She's bent because he sticks up for me and tells her that I am his best friend. She has called me evil and a whore and fine, if that makes her feel better. I have no problem with what I did and I have no regrets.
You are 100% correct in SOME on your comments. He is too blame for his lack of respect for his family and his wife. He choose to believe that the grass could be greener (most of the time, it's not!) and he is the one that took the vows. But you as a human being also should have morals and you dare sit here and say you have no problem with what you did and no regrets. Well I would have a reality check here Miss, because if the tables were turned....you would be smacked in the face with hard core reality. He is the unfaithful one...YES BUT you too know it was wrong to be with a married man who has a family and children and having no regrets does say a lot about your character. She does have every right to hate you and hate him, she wants her family back. But if she only knew, he is better off with you than with her. Because you two apparently have the same morals. I am not saying everyone is perfect, NO WAY. But you too need to take responsiblty in part of this as well. Not for breaking up the marriage, because that was his doing but for the lack of respect for another person's feelings.