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October 19, 2005, 2:46 pm PDT
The things you don't say...
Quote From: hollz83I am 22 and from NZ, My best friend was dating a guy for just under a year and a half. That was three years ago! We have all matured and grown up. We have stayed in contact ever since they broke up, we can tell eachother everything! Well... recently we have been dating and I confronted my friend and she said I had betrayed her! I know im young but this feels right! He adores my 2 year old daughter and has wanted me ever since they broke up. My friend said to me that I should F*** OFF and never to contact her again! Its hard because we have been friends for 20 years and she was there for me when I was in labour! I am really confussed and not sure what to do now. We have only been dating for a week and I have lost her as a friend. DO YOU THINK I HAVE BETRAYED HER?? You don't say how long your best friend and her ex-boyfriend have been split up, or who broke up with who. If it hasn't been that long since they split, and if it was the guy that initiated the break-up, your best friend may still have hurt feelings. She may also think you had something to do with it.
If it has been 6 months or more, you did not betray her in the least and she needs to move on.
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