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October 18, 2005, 1:32 pm PDT
The Other Woman
Quote From: latingirlYou are 100% correct in SOME on your comments. He is too blame for his lack of respect for his family and his wife. He choose to believe that the grass could be greener (most of the time, it's not!) and he is the one that took the vows. But you as a human being also should have morals and you dare sit here and say you have no problem with what you did and no regrets. Well I would have a reality check here Miss, because if the tables were turned....you would be smacked in the face with hard core reality. He is the unfaithful one...YES BUT you too know it was wrong to be with a married man who has a family and children and having no regrets does say a lot about your character. She does have every right to hate you and hate him, she wants her family back. But if she only knew, he is better off with you than with her. Because you two apparently have the same morals. I am not saying everyone is perfect, NO WAY. But you too need to take responsiblty in part of this as well. Not for breaking up the marriage, because that was his doing but for the lack of respect for another person's feelings. Finally someone who has the courage to stand up for the moral fiber of family. I am a wife and at the present time there is another woman in my marriage. Granted my husband made his decision however he did not make it alone. Women who feel they have no obligation to another womans marraige is one lying to herself and to that man. Both are for what is within their best interst, at that time therefore to make a comment that "I have no obligations to her" is insane. Maybe you don't but its obvious you want intimacy, love, and commitment so why settle for her marriage instead of possibly waiting for your own? Sure no strings attached appears to be fun however time brings about a change and both will reap what they sew. It is natural for a wife to fight for her family whether it be physical or otherwise. The most effective is through scripture but how many of us have that kind of patience? Being a wife is both rewarding and hard work and quite frankly I don't intend to fight sitting down, however those of you who enjoy being the other woman need to take a hard look at reality and see the big picture. You all assist that man in destroying his family only to say I had nothing to do with it. This is real life, real souls, with very real consequences. Think about it.
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