Quote From: poptart07I am a blonde haired girl named Erin, and when I heard a virgin was going to be on the Dr. Phil show publicly discussing the topic, I wanted to call Dr. Phil and ask for your phone number. I'm a virgin as well, and am "patiently" awaiting my soul mate. I don't have a specific idea of who this soul mate will be, and I guess I don't entirely agree with the concept of a soul mate, but it's possible that God does have a specific person in mind for me. I don't believe it really matters if i know it or not. I believe that as long as I am in God's will, and am seeking the things that he wishes for me to find, he will show me who he wants me to marry. He definatly has shown me who he doesn't want me to marry, as evidenced by the past array of guys I have dated. Just seek Gods will. Go on dates, and enjoy them, but don't make a split second judgement. Spend some earnest time in prayer over each one of those girls, and ask God to tell you. I believe he will! and if you're open to blonde haired girls named Erin, I know where you could find one! 
I think we are on the same page regarding courtship and perhaps more...
I would have to say that I consider myself very fortunate to have dated many of the girls that I have. Their perspective improved mine. There is nothing I enjoy more than taking a nice girl out and showing her a good time. I had a simply rule of courtship to always treat the lady as if her father was watching.
However, I always thought that just because you have a great time on a date doesn't always mean that you need to get committed or intimate. I have always held back certain things wating for my soulmate.
Anyways...
You can (and whoever else) reach me by going to match.com and the username "Caygeon"
Warmest Regards,
Mark