Quote From: sduszynskiWhile attempting to avoid a huge and detailed discussion, I have to say that if you view our history as biological beings, saving your virginity for your "soulmate" is NOT the way it's "supposed" to be.
Evolutionarily speaking, we have sex to procreate. Evolutionarily speaking, love has nothing to do with sex.
This is NOT to say I believe love & sex are unrelated. It's quite wonderful to love the person with whom you are intimate.
However, it is only your personal view that sex before marriage is wrong. Yes, it is a view that is held by many - but it IS a moral OPINION and nothing more.
To keep the post on topic and refer back to the show, I feel that if the 20-year-old guest is happy with his choice to remain celibate until he meets the woman he marries, the choice should be his. I have no problem with this. I only take issue with the statement that this is "the way it's SUPPOSED to be."
WHEN YOU SPEAK OF EVOLUTION, THAT IS YOUR OPINION AND NOTHING MORE!!!
"Evolutionarily speaking, we have sex to procreate."
PEOPLE DON'T NEED TO HAVE SEX TO PROCREATE!!!
IF PEOPLE HAVE SEX TO PROCREATE:
WHY DO THEY USE METHODS TO PREVENT OR END A PREGNANCY???
WHAT ABOUT SAME SEX COUPLES??? NO SEX???
WHAT ABOUT PEOPLE WHO BIOLOGICALLY CANNOT PRODUCE OFFSPRING??? ARE THEY TO STOP HAVING SEX???
AT WHAT AGE IS IT OK FOR PEOPLE TO START HAVING SEX??? DID YOU HAVE A CHILD AT AGE 12???
THERE ARE MORE QUESTIONS BUT I WILL STOP AT THIS.
NOT HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS NOT JUST MY OPINION,
I BELIEVE IT IS GOD'S MESSAGE AND HOPE FOR ALL OF US!!!
I WILL HAPPILY LIVE AS A VIRGIN UNTIL I MARRY OR DIE!!!
IN MY WORLD, IT IS THE WAY IT IS SUPPOSED TO BE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BA777
