Quote From: musicmin I thought it was awfully arrogant of the home-schooling mother to say she didn't think the public schools could deal with how advanced her child is. Oh, please. Does she have a degree in education? I get frustrated when I see children being taught by parents who don't know much about the subject matter themselves. Does this woman plan on home-schooling her advanced child until he goes to college? Is she ready to instruct him in Physics and higher-level mathematics? Is she an expert in Literature or the History of Western Civilization?
I understand wanting to protect your child. I have three kids, myself. I was one of those kids who scored in the 99%ile all my life in standardized tests... plus I have a Master's degree in Education. However, I would not deny my children the opportunity to be instructed by people who have more expertise than I do in certain subjects. I've always believed anyone can achieve great success in whatever schooling environment they choose... whether it's public, private or home-schooled as long as the instructors are competent and the parents are involved.
As long as her local public school is a safe environment, I would say, give it a chance. Your son just might flourish there. You could volunteer at the school. You might even discover you enjoy helping other children succeed.
Did I teach my children how to walk, talk, eat, dress, tie their shoes, use a phone, etc or did I need an 'expert with a degree'?? Sure as heck didn't need a degree. I have 3 kids I homeschool. One with Asperger's Syndrome, one with major learning disabilities and one that is gifted. They have been in the public school system and the system for all their 'experts' and 'degrees' could offer us NOTHING. When a teacher has 30 kids on one room and is trying to teach them all the same thing at the same time even though some are slower then others and some are faster then average - no much gets taught.
There's so much time wasted with 'line up', 'be quiet', 'find your books', we're not reading until you all stop talking' and on and on and on that my kids can do their work at home in the morning and we're free to head out in the afternoon to zoos, science centres, play dates, parks, bird sanctuaries, etc. Things that even those experts with degrees can't give my children because there is no time.
Just because a person homeschools their kids doesn't mean they know everything. However, they are ready to learn and if they can't learn it they are ready to find someone or someplace that can help. There are co-ops, homeschool classes, friends, etc that may know something we don't.
For all the hassle that school was for my kids, I'm so grateful for the opportunity to teach them at home.
Jeannie