Quote From: flash1190My four year old step son started school this year. According to his teacher, he is having a hard time sitting down and listening. He was sent to the prinicpals office one day because he would not do as he was told in gym class. What can I do to help?
Your 4 year old started school? Do you mean kindergarten or pre-school? Is he one of the youngest in his class? Did he turn 4 recently, or is he going to turn 5 soon? Without knowing more about him and the type of program he's in, it's unclear whether the expectations are not appropriate for his age level, or if he's really having a problem. By all means, DON'T let anyone pressure you into putting him on medication. There are a lot of other things you could try first.
What is he like at home? Does he listen to and follow directions at home? Is his behavior hard to manage at home? Does he have a melt-down every time that he doesn't get what he wants? Is he constantly active, or does he sometimes engage in a quiet activity? Is he used to being around other children his age? Is he impulsive, always getting into trouble?
