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Created on : Friday, February 17, 2006, 03:00:33 pm

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(Original Air Date: 02/20/06) Meet three women who each admit to being a "bitch" and proud of it! Kristine, Teresa and Lois all say their demanding bitchiness gets them what they want when they want it. But Dr. Phil challenges their thinking. Is it really working for them? What is behind their bitchy bias, and would their lives change for the better with an attitude adjustment? Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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psydmommy

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February 19, 2006, 7:38 pm PST

02/20 Are You a Bitch?

You say “Bitch” like it’s a bad thing! Beautiful, Intelligent, Talented, Creative, and Hard Working (copy write).

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hatman5

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February 20, 2006, 2:18 am PST

02/20 Are You a Bitch?

wow if that first bitch walked into my shop and tried to treat me like that i'd call security on her. I work in a shoe shop and I will be completing a Masters degree this year, and this low life thinks shes superior to me? I'm not a bitch but I don't put up, and I wouldnt put up with that kind of crap from any bully looking for a power trip by making someone feel bad.

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stepmomusa

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February 20, 2006, 4:17 am PST

02/20 Are You a Bitch?

Sorry, Ladies...I don't buy this bitchy facade for a second. You can always tell how a person feels about him/herself by observing the way they treat others. You treat people like crap, it's because deep down you're trying to mask your own feelings of inadequacy and anger. You strike me as very sad, desperate, lonely women.

Remember the movie Schindler's List? When Oskar Schindler was talking with a drunken Amon Goethe? He said that true strength is compassion. He was right.

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powers009

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February 20, 2006, 4:29 am PST

02/20 Are You a Bitch?

We all have our own ideas of what a bitch is. The literal meaning is a female dog. Not a nice thing to say about a woman. Now I do have a question why is it when a woman in business is assertive and a real go getter ie aggressive is referred to as a bitch and when a man is assertive and aggressive he is just being an asset to the company? Hmmmm. I personally don't like the terminology of bitch when I hear the word I think of someone who is mean, rude, and will do whatever it takes to get what they want no matter the cost.

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legna32

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February 20, 2006, 5:35 am PST

I am....

I am a bitch and im not afraid to admit it. People say that I have really bad road rage but that's only because peole are so slow and stupid on the roads. It is ridiculous!

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sb1119

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February 20, 2006, 6:42 am PST

Proud but miserable?

Wow, for people who claim to be proud of themselves and the way they treat others, they sure seem to be miserable human beings.

There is a difference between being assertive and earning dignity and respect and bullying others as woefully obvious attempt to cover up feelings of inadequacy. We all know it.

Happy, secure, successful people do not treat others with such disregard. It's really a no brainer.

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February 20, 2006, 7:03 am PST

Bitchy Women / The Poem

The Bitchy Woman

Women who's passion is to ruin men

Everyone speaks of what men do to woman--there's something else going on, I'm here to help you to understand..

There are some bitchy women in this world--who actually plot, how to make a mans mind swirl..

There are women in love with love--they handle they're men so ungodly, it stings like a glove..

Some women enjoy hurting man--making him so weak, he cant stand..

Yes! they love the hurting they do--they love the confusion, they put man thru..

Making the boy friend or husband weak in the knees--and when he finally realizes, its a fight to brake free..

They love to drag them, ruin them for others--and ungodly love is so thick, it seems to smother..

These bitchy women that love to make others hearts sad--enjoy being rough and bad..

They're bitchy, deliberate, and wrong--and by the time he realizes, the abuse has gone on to long..

Because they're men who love with they're heart and soul--but the bitchy woman never loves, she likes to beat down and control..

He's in love with someone who wont let her self love--she prefer to dominate with uncaring, selfish hugs..

To her life is a performance, nothings real--as her blood runs cold and still..

She plots, plan, and manipulate--and if she can get into him, he becomes dead weight..

She will make him something that will forever change his life--she's spoiling him, for the next girl friend or wife..

It should be a law to record our lives in detail--and as we meet other lover our past relationships we'd have to tell..

Hey! there are innocent women out there hurting and sad--because that bitchy women before them, treated they're man so bad..

Please ladies, when you meet a good man, don't hurt him--Remember that woman before you, could of been, the kind of woman who's passion, is to ruin men..

By: Patricia Robinson--2/17/06--9:30am

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radiate06

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February 20, 2006, 7:12 am PST

All of us women possess an inner bitchiness

I believe all of us have it within us to be bitches. Some of us just don't let it out as often. It's okay to be a bitch. It breaks up the monotony. Every now and then, if we're a little abrasive, people won't walk on you. Being a bitch every now and then let's people know you won't be taken advantage of.

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February 20, 2006, 7:14 am PST

Hallelujah

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People will bend over backwards to help you if you treat them nicely and with respect. I get business referred to me all the time because people consider me pleasant to work with. There is no reason to be bitchy to get what you want when you can get more doing it nicely!

Steph

People are soooo negative these days, and I firmly believe negativity breeds negativity. I have worked with, and for Bs, and grew up with one for a mother (but who also suffers from mental illness), which makes me wonder do these women not have a personality disorder. Interestingly enough, they display characteristics of a histrionic personality, or narcisstic personality, or borderline personality. I recognize, too, some people are just plain m-e-a-n. My husband has spoiled me with a nice car, and one of my favorite features is a sunscreen across the rear window. I can push a button and it raises itself to cover the whole window. Drivers like Kristine become NO problem -- I don't have to suffer with their rudeness and gestures. The looks on their faces when I raise the screen is priceless.

I agree with you, that if you are mindful of others -- isn't that the Golden Rule we used to recite in school? -- you get just about anything you want/need. I have worked with "bitchy" administrators (men, too, as a matter-of-fact) who couldn't pay me enough to get a job done, whereas, had I been treated with respect and/or just simple human decency, whatever, I'd have killed myself in an attempt to get the job done. I've contended I want to go to business/education school and take the courses that teach people mishandling, abusive practices such as "shi**# - memo writing, threats and harrassment. I've worked with plenty in an administrative position who I'd swear learned it somewhere!

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rdslots

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February 20, 2006, 7:18 am PST

Back off!

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I am a bitch and im not afraid to admit it. People say that I have really bad road rage but that's only because peole are so slow and stupid on the roads. It is ridiculous!

Please do us all a favor and hire a chauffeur. Do you realize that drivers like you contribute to accidents and subsequent higher insurance rates?

What is the big hurry, anyway?

I used to laugh at my first husband and his family, all of whom drove aggressively. Everyone on the road was either 'stupid' or a 'maniac.' I told them they had truly missed their calling in life, opening a Driving School.

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