Topic : 07/31 Are You a Bitch?

When men get upset, yell, hollar, whatever, he's accepted as getting what he wants. It's the, "Yes, sir!" attitude & it gets the job done. However, when a woman stands up for herself by having to yell after she cannot get her point across nicely & firmly, is considered a bitch! Double standard? I think so! Sorry, Phil! How about having a show about men who yell too much to get what they want? It wouldn't be called a, "Bitchfest" now would it?
 

I actually felt bad for the second girl with the passive-aggressive husband.  Her anger clearly came from the hurt she feels inside.  The husband is gone all the time...she has to take care of the house, the kids, etc.  She deserves a little help when he's home. 

Granted she isn't handling it the right way, but I feel her problem is more about frustration from the lack of communication between the two of them and not because she just wants to be a bitch. 

I just wanted to slap that smile off the husband's face....lol. 

I believe that some people are bitchy because they are lazy. It takes a lot more energy to be nice to people. You have to work at being nice but the rewards are great. Just think you may never see the way you affect someone but if by being nice you leave an everlasting impression with the person that may affect the way they treat the next person how great a reward have you stored in heaven for yourself. 

NO GOOD DEED GOES UNNOTICED 

Dr Phil was correct, if they could see themselves as other people see them they might think twice about how they're treating other people.   

Guest #1 - she's going through life treating the world the way a group of teenaged girls treated her in high school.   Time to grow up, you left high school behind years ago.  I found it interesting that she had a problem with the woman that needed film developed for her daughter's school project - okay for her to treat people badly but she can't take what she gives. 

Guest #2 - .....and this  is the man she loves and wants/wanted to spend the rest of her life with.  It's bad enough that she treats him like that, she needs to remember that she's raising children (boys).  Unfortunately at this rate she may be raising the next generation of women abusers or individuals that are going to continue that vicious life style. 

Guest #3 - I don't think she's gotten over the low self esteem that she had as an over weight individual.  She's thin and attractive, but that's being lost  because of her terrible attitude.  She better be careful loneliness may cause her to put that weight back on. 

I hope Dr Phil gave them a copy of the show. they  need to step back and take a long look at what they're doing to themselves and to the people around them.  The world is not all about them.  They share this space with the rest of us, and as a member of this world I know they can be happy if they overcome their anger and frustrations. 

I hope they can find  love, peace, joy, happiness and faith   

I think that people that are bitchy all the time are ultimately unhappy.  I used to be an unhappy person in an unhappy marriage that showed a lot of the tendencies that these women show.  I know some people that still are just like them.  One of them is on a big power trip and tries to control everyone in her life.  What she has done is push nearly everyone who used to be her friends away.  Even her own husband has apologized to me for her behavior towards me (without her knowledge, of course, because he fears her wrath as much as everyone else.) 

I DO NOT think that acting like a bitch can make a person feel fulfilled or happy.   I think surrounding yourself with loving, caring people and eliminating relationships with people that drag you down with negativity and meanness from your life will ultimately help lead you towards being a happy and good person.